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Hello! We are the Chillak-a

Thursday, March 12, 2009
Love each other or perish (:

Would i regret the secret i had kept hidden?
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We're so wrapped up with egotistical things, career, having enough money, meeting the mortage, getting a new car, fixing the radiator when it breaks-we're involved in trillions of little acts just to keep going. So we don't get into the habit of standing back and looking at our lives and saying, Is this all i want? Is something missing?
You need someone to probe you in that direction. It just wont happen automatically.
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Money is not for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness. You cant substitute material things for love or for gentleness or for tenderness or for a sense of comradeship.
If you hold back on your emotions- if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them-you can never get to being detached, you're too busy afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails.
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Forgive ourselves for all the things we didn't do. All the things we should have done. You cant get stuck on the regrets of what should have happened.
Make peace. You need to make peace with yourself and everyone around you.
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How we feel lonely,sometimes to the point of tears, but we don't let those tears come because we're not supposed to cry. Or how we feel a surge of love for a partner but we don't say anything because we're frozen with the fear of what those words might do to the relationship.
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-Tuesdays with Morrie
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now i feel goooood.. don't you? hahaha.
ok. I'm supposed to go polyclinic in the morning, but I'm scared of the doctor! fish laa. haaaa.
kkk. just go luhh.. good luck to me! hahaha.
if any of you will be around pp or lib, just msg or call me OK. (: