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Sunday, June 21, 2009

its so easy to say tht u hate a person, only to realise afterwards that u are incapable of hating.
why is it that despite a person repeatedly hurting you, u just don't seem to be able to hate them? it becomes harder when there is familiar links because no matter what, there is no way you can break off ties with the person or at least avoid them..

it's a different story when that person is not related to you at all because there is a choice and when you realise that you are not treated the way you should be treated, you either tell the person and make sure it gets into his head or break off from him!! never ever tolerate a user or a manipulator. YOU WILL REGRET IT IN THE FUTURE! such people should never be tolerated, really... i don't know how to put this in words but i guess different people just have different experiences in life and certain things or people just gets on their nerves more than it does on others.

i know it's difficult. yes of course it is to break off or avoid someone you love. this is a reason why many would advice that you learn to love yourself first before loving another. the reason is not so that you would know how to love others but to know the limits of your love for another. if the person doesn't appreciate or treasure you the way u should be loved, then he is not worth it!! NOT AT ALL!!! such things are easier said then done because again, others say love is blind. you see... it is easier said than done but that does not mean that it is impossible to do... a blind can never see but he can find his way of surviving. nothing is impossible...
why let a person manipulate you when you can avoid it?

this is all i've got to say now although there's a whole lot more i just can't put to words...