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Thursday, July 16, 2009

i was randomly searching for books in the lib and i found this book on how to lose friends and infuriate people.rightt..

"why should others have the right to penetrate your emotions when they feel like it and disturb you when they decide to do so? it is your life,so you ought to have the right to decide when someone can upset you, if at all.."
and I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

we are usually afraid of people's opinion, so we convinced ourselves that they're right or they're actually wrong?
but then again, we can only fool ourselves for a little while..
after all, I've learned that we shouldn't bother so much about whats others may think of you or the people around you. if they're not happy with it, just let it be.. only time will tell everything and all we should do is,
be patient and have faith.